They Aren't Even Trying Anymore

The A's, B's, and DD's of Getting Older — a funny, honest collection of essays for every woman who's ever laughed, or cried, at what her body's up to lately.

  • It's like gabbing with a good friend who truly understands you and sharing a good laugh. (Or cry).

    Ana Sneed · Amazon
  • I laughed a lot while reading this and at times thought to myself, wow... I guess I'm not the only one going through this!

    Doreen Fournier · Amazon
  • It feels like an older best friend sharing the adventures of aging, all the things your mom never told you.

    Jasmine Robinson · Amazon
  • This is a book where I would hang my DO NOT DISTURB ME UNTIL I'M DONE READING sign on my door knob!

    Joni Enders · Amazon
  • A refreshing and hilarious take on the journey of getting older as a woman.

    TMG · Amazon
  • Be prepared to laugh, cry and nod in recognition as you journey through these delightful stories.

    Nancy · Amazon
  • This book is relatable and funny on so many levels. I was laughing out loud while reading 'about myself' on many of the pages.

    James · Amazon
  • Loved everything about this book. Would have loved to have this thirty years ago.

    Amazon customer

What readers say

  • ★★★★★

    Real, Relatable & so Clever

    What a fun read. It's like gabbing with a good friend who truly understands you and sharing a good laugh. (Or cry). Cleverly written, I'm so glad for this compilation of essays!

    Ana Sneed · Amazon, 2024-10-20
  • ★★★★★

    I LOVED THIS BOOK!

    For me this book got better and better as the stories moved through the alphabet. The stories have vulnerability and wisdom, and are also written with humor and honesty. I laughed a lot while reading this and at times thought to myself, wow...I guess I'm not the only one going through this!

    Doreen Fournier · Amazon, 2024-11-02
  • ★★★★★

    A perfect birthday gift for your girlfriends!

    This is one of those books where you curl up in bed with your furbabies to read a chapter, only to finish the whole thing in one sitting because it is that good! It feels like an older best friend sharing the adventures of aging, all the things your mom never told you. Many sections are relatable even in your 40s, providing a hilarious visual of what to expect going forward. I actually read this on my birthday, a day I normally spend stressing about aging, but it had me laughing and appreciating my latest trip around the sun. The best is yet to come!

    Jasmine Robinson · Amazon, 2026-03-13
  • ★★★★★

    Find a cozy spot and enjoy the read!

    To say this is a thoroughly entertaining and delightful read only begins to scratch the surface of this soul-baring, humorous author's peek into her uplifting and marvelously relatable baby boomer's journey. This is a book where I would hang my DO NOT DISTURB ME UNTIL I'M DONE READING sign on my door knob!

    Joni Enders · Amazon, 2024-10-31
  • ★★★★★

    Tired of trying to age gracefully? Instead, try aging with this humorous helper

    This book is a refreshing and hilarious take on the journey of getting older as a woman. Full of wit and charm, the author masterfully blends humor with the universal truths about aging, from the aches and wrinkles to the wisdom and freedom that come with time. What sets this book apart is its ability to tackle the serious subject of aging without ever feeling heavy. Instead, it embraces the absurdity and the joy of getting older, celebrating the quirks that come with each stage of life.

    TMG · Amazon, 2024-10-23
  • ★★★★★

    Laughing Through the Years

    Be prepared to laugh, cry and nod in recognition as you journey through these delightful stories that capture the ups and downs of aging with humor and grace.

    Nancy · Amazon, 2024-11-03
  • ★★★★★

    Fun, easy read

    This book is relatable and funny on so many levels. Not only does it touch on silly childhood topics, but I was laughing out loud while reading “about myself” on many of the pages. The author has captured the thoughts of many women of my era who just haven't taken the time to reflect and memorialize these anecdotes. I enjoyed each short topic and I am looking for the sequel. Maybe the next chapters can be AA-ZZ?

    James · Amazon, 2024-11-14
  • ★★★★★

    Great read. Totally relatable..

    Loved everything about this book. Would have loved to have this thirty years ago.

    Amazon customer, 2024-11-11

Rated 4.8 out of 5 across Amazon and Goodreads. Every word above is a reader’s own.

They Aren’t Even Trying Anymore

Twenty-six essays, A to Z, on what your body gets up to after sixty.

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